The Trap of Busyness

“Do not overwork to be rich; because of your own understanding, cease!” — Proverbs 23:4 (NKJV)

Bill Walton, the co-founder of Holiday Inns, once shared a heart-wrenching regret about his life. He had built one of the most successful hotel chains in America. By the world’s standards, he was the epitome of success. But at a Bible study in Florida, Walton opened up about the cost of that success.

He confessed, “I never went to a single Little League game for my kids.” As he spoke, his voice trembled, and tears welled up in his eyes. The room fell silent. Then he said something that stuck with everyone there: “Don’t let that happen to you.” [Bill Walton, Man in the Mirror Bible study, Orlando, 1998, as quoted in Patrick Morley, A Man's Guide to Work (Chicago, Ill: Moody, 2021), 110.

Walton’s story is a modern-day example of what Proverbs 23:4 warns us about: “Do not overwork to be rich.” While work is important and necessary, overworking to the point of neglecting your family leads to regret. Walton sacrificed time with his children for success, but no amount of money or accolades could give him those moments back.

We live in a culture that glorifies busyness. Long hours at work are often seen as a badge of honor, but busyness doesn’t equal faithfulness. God doesn’t call us to neglect our families in the name of providing for them. Instead, He calls us to trust Him for our provision and steward our time wisely.

Walton’s story is a sobering reminder to prioritize what matters most. Don’t let busyness rob you of the moments you’ll wish you could get back.

Reflection Question: Are you so busy working that you’re missing the moments that matter most with your family?

Lord, help me to resist the trap of busyness and to trust You to meet my needs. Teach me to prioritize my family and use my time wisely. In Jesus’ Name, amen.

Adapted from: "Balancing Work and Family" - https://www.joshfranklin.org/media/jkhvmcg/5-balancing-work-and-family