Loneliness is one of the most common human emotions, yet it can be one of the most difficult to overcome. Even as Christians who know God is always present, we can still experience deep feelings of isolation. Dr. Gary Oliver, a Christian counselor, has offered five practical steps to help conquer loneliness: [see Real Men Have Feelings Too (Chicago, Ill: Moody, 1993), 153-162.]1. Look Up: Develop ...

"I thank my God upon every remembrance of you for your fellowship in the gospel from the first day until now." —Philippians 1:3, 5 (NKJV)There’s something special about working together to accomplish a shared purpose. Think of the friendships that form on a sports team or in a workplace. Paul described this kind of bond with the Philippian church. Even while in prison, he felt connected to them be...

"Be diligent to come to me quickly… Only Luke is with me. Get Mark and bring him with you, for he is useful to me for ministry." —2 Timothy 4:9–11 (NKJV)The apostle Paul, nearing the end of his life, writes with vulnerability in 2 Timothy 4. He mentions that Demas has abandoned him, others have departed to fulfill their own callings, and only Luke remains by his side. Paul, the great missionary an...

"Turn to me and be gracious to me, for I am lonely and afflicted." —Psalm 25:16 (ESV)A pastor once shared the pain of loneliness during one of the busiest times of the year: Christmas Eve. He had gone through the heartbreak of a divorce after his wife left him for another man. While the church leadership supported him and he sought counseling, the sting of loneliness remained.That Christmas Eve, h...

"Where can I go from your Spirit? Where can I flee from your presence? If I go up to the heavens, you are there; if I make my bed in the depths, you are there." —Psalm 139:7-8 (NIV)Mother Theresa once said, “The world’s greatest tragedy is unwantedness; the world’s greatest disease is loneliness.”[1]Philip Zimbardo, writing in Psychology Today, has said, “There is no more destructive influence on ...