September 4th, 2025
by Dr. Josh Franklin
by Dr. Josh Franklin
"Not returning evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary blessing, knowing that you were called to this, that you may inherit a blessing." - 1 Peter 3:9 (NKJV)
This principle directly opposes our natural inclinations. When offended, our instinct is to fight back, to retaliate. But God tells us to respond with love instead of vengeance, blessing instead of cursing, forgiveness instead of retaliation.
Think about how we treat physical wounds. What do we tell children who pick at scabs? "If you keep picking at it, it will never heal." The same principle applies to relational wounds in God's family - if we keep fighting, the hurt will never heal.
Jesus modeled this perfectly. On the cross, He prayed, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do" (Luke 23:34). Stephen, the first martyr, followed this example when being stoned to death, crying out for God to forgive them (Acts 7:60).
The word "bless" means more than speaking well of someone. It means invoking God's blessing upon them. It means praying for their welfare. This verse says we are to ask God to bless someone who has wronged us. How is this possible? Because while we were still sinners, Christ died for us (Romans 5:8). The same love that was expressed in Christ's sacrifice has been poured into our hearts by the Holy Spirit (Romans 5:5).
Reflection Question: Is there someone who has hurt you that you've been "picking at the scab" instead of allowing healing? What would it look like to bless them instead of seeking revenge?
Father, forgive me for the times I've chosen retaliation over blessing. Help me to stop picking at old wounds and instead trust You to bring healing. Give me the strength to bless those who have hurt me. In Jesus' Name, amen.
Adapted from "Enjoying the Good Life" (1 Peter 3:8-12): https://www.joshfranklin.org/media/275rcc6/16-enjoying-the-good-life-1-peter-3-8-12
This principle directly opposes our natural inclinations. When offended, our instinct is to fight back, to retaliate. But God tells us to respond with love instead of vengeance, blessing instead of cursing, forgiveness instead of retaliation.
Think about how we treat physical wounds. What do we tell children who pick at scabs? "If you keep picking at it, it will never heal." The same principle applies to relational wounds in God's family - if we keep fighting, the hurt will never heal.
Jesus modeled this perfectly. On the cross, He prayed, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do" (Luke 23:34). Stephen, the first martyr, followed this example when being stoned to death, crying out for God to forgive them (Acts 7:60).
The word "bless" means more than speaking well of someone. It means invoking God's blessing upon them. It means praying for their welfare. This verse says we are to ask God to bless someone who has wronged us. How is this possible? Because while we were still sinners, Christ died for us (Romans 5:8). The same love that was expressed in Christ's sacrifice has been poured into our hearts by the Holy Spirit (Romans 5:5).
Reflection Question: Is there someone who has hurt you that you've been "picking at the scab" instead of allowing healing? What would it look like to bless them instead of seeking revenge?
Father, forgive me for the times I've chosen retaliation over blessing. Help me to stop picking at old wounds and instead trust You to bring healing. Give me the strength to bless those who have hurt me. In Jesus' Name, amen.
Adapted from "Enjoying the Good Life" (1 Peter 3:8-12): https://www.joshfranklin.org/media/275rcc6/16-enjoying-the-good-life-1-peter-3-8-12
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