June 10th, 2025
by Dr. Josh Franklin
by Dr. Josh Franklin
"Turn to me and be gracious to me, for I am lonely and afflicted." —Psalm 25:16 (ESV)
A pastor once shared the pain of loneliness during one of the busiest times of the year: Christmas Eve. He had gone through the heartbreak of a divorce after his wife left him for another man. While the church leadership supported him and he sought counseling, the sting of loneliness remained.
That Christmas Eve, he preached to a congregation of 2,200 people. The sanctuary was alive with joy and celebration—families sitting together, voices raised in worship, the lights reflecting the hope of Christ’s birth. Yet as he stood before the crowd, he couldn’t shake the deep ache of isolation. When the service ended and the congregation returned to their homes and loved ones, he went back to an empty house.
His experience reminds us of a profound truth: it’s possible to feel completely alone, even when surrounded by people. Henry David Thoreau captured this reality when he wrote, “A city is a place where hundreds of people are lonely together.” Loneliness isn’t about proximity to others—it’s about connection.
David, the psalmist, understood this ache. In Psalm 25:16, he cries out, “Turn to me and be gracious to me, for I am lonely and afflicted.” Instead of wallowing in despair, David brings his loneliness to God, trusting in His gracious presence.
You may find yourself in a similar season today—at work, at church, or even in your own home. You might be surrounded by people yet feel unseen, unneeded, or disconnected. If so, take heart. Like David, you can bring your loneliness to God. He sees you, hears you, and offers you His presence, where you are fully known and deeply loved.
Reflection Question: When have you felt the ache of loneliness, even in the midst of a crowd? How can you invite God to meet you in that moment?
Dear Heavenly Father, thank You for being the One who sees me in my loneliness and understands the ache in my heart. Please turn toward me with Your grace and remind me that I am never truly alone. Help me to find comfort in Your presence and the courage to reach out to others for connection. In Jesus’ Name, amen.
Adapted from "God's Answer for Loneliness": https://www.joshfranklin.org/media/5md6t56/7-god-s-answer-for-loneliness
A pastor once shared the pain of loneliness during one of the busiest times of the year: Christmas Eve. He had gone through the heartbreak of a divorce after his wife left him for another man. While the church leadership supported him and he sought counseling, the sting of loneliness remained.
That Christmas Eve, he preached to a congregation of 2,200 people. The sanctuary was alive with joy and celebration—families sitting together, voices raised in worship, the lights reflecting the hope of Christ’s birth. Yet as he stood before the crowd, he couldn’t shake the deep ache of isolation. When the service ended and the congregation returned to their homes and loved ones, he went back to an empty house.
His experience reminds us of a profound truth: it’s possible to feel completely alone, even when surrounded by people. Henry David Thoreau captured this reality when he wrote, “A city is a place where hundreds of people are lonely together.” Loneliness isn’t about proximity to others—it’s about connection.
David, the psalmist, understood this ache. In Psalm 25:16, he cries out, “Turn to me and be gracious to me, for I am lonely and afflicted.” Instead of wallowing in despair, David brings his loneliness to God, trusting in His gracious presence.
You may find yourself in a similar season today—at work, at church, or even in your own home. You might be surrounded by people yet feel unseen, unneeded, or disconnected. If so, take heart. Like David, you can bring your loneliness to God. He sees you, hears you, and offers you His presence, where you are fully known and deeply loved.
Reflection Question: When have you felt the ache of loneliness, even in the midst of a crowd? How can you invite God to meet you in that moment?
Dear Heavenly Father, thank You for being the One who sees me in my loneliness and understands the ache in my heart. Please turn toward me with Your grace and remind me that I am never truly alone. Help me to find comfort in Your presence and the courage to reach out to others for connection. In Jesus’ Name, amen.
Adapted from "God's Answer for Loneliness": https://www.joshfranklin.org/media/5md6t56/7-god-s-answer-for-loneliness
Dr. Josh Franklin
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